Comments on: What is Obsession? http://thelegendarynarcissist.com/what-is-obsession/ Recovering From a Narcissistic Love Encounter Sat, 28 Aug 2010 07:10:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Imnotcrazy http://thelegendarynarcissist.com/what-is-obsession/comment-page-1/#comment-1267 Imnotcrazy Mon, 02 Nov 2009 07:54:21 +0000 http://thelegendarynarcissist.com/?p=17#comment-1267 My narcissist always said he didn't have good since but I cant say that about him or he'd blow up but yep they are loony as hell and the funny thing about it he would be around his family and make this comment ''Am I crazy and yall aint tellin me about it'' and they would say child yeah something wrong with you even him mother call her own self crazy why couldn't I have found this out way sooner, cause I was too busy being charmed and had my guards down. My narcissist always said he didn’t have good since but I cant say that about him or he’d blow up but yep they are loony as hell and the funny thing about it he would be around his family and make this comment ”Am I crazy and yall aint tellin me about it” and they would say child yeah something wrong with you even him mother call her own self crazy why couldn’t I have found this out way sooner, cause I was too busy being charmed and had my guards down.

]]> By: Kristina http://thelegendarynarcissist.com/what-is-obsession/comment-page-1/#comment-352 Kristina Sun, 25 Jan 2009 15:20:27 +0000 http://thelegendarynarcissist.com/?p=17#comment-352 I beleive that the "covert" Narcissicts are far more damaging than the really open ones. With the open ones you never get as hurt, because "what you see is what you get". Everyone sees/understands that this person is Crazy... I come from a family with Subtle and Highly Camouflaged, yet Extremely Potent Narcissism. It took me AGES to discover the games, they were so intricate and well-covered. I have had this obsession too - I think it has to do with the "brain" looping in search of reason and logic to the behavior. You can't BELEIVE that people can be like that. They look like people but they are mutations somehow. And they want you to obsess, its their final "gift" to you. My salvation was, that after I had read and written what I needed to, I tried to find a mental disorder that was easier, to liken "Narcissism" to. I said to myself, if someone is mentally sick and beleive they are Napoleon (delusional), would you really delve that deeply into it? It's the same with Narcissists, they are mentally retarded, cuckoo, the light is one but nobody's home... Crazy is the word and you can certainly explain it in so many different sychological terms. But the essence remains, they are LOONEYS. It's as simple as that, and after you have received the knowledge you need, it shall set you free!! You see, they want to be larger than life, complex, powerful beings and when you stop seeing them like that, and start viewing them as just simply...human cardboards, you have won the battle for good! PS: And what you fell in love with was a reflection of yourself (whih flatters YOU after all ;) I beleive that the “covert” Narcissicts are far more damaging than the really open ones. With the open ones you never get as hurt, because “what you see is what you get”. Everyone sees/understands that this person is Crazy… I come from a family with Subtle and Highly Camouflaged, yet Extremely Potent Narcissism. It took me AGES to discover the games, they were so intricate and well-covered.

I have had this obsession too – I think it has to do with the “brain” looping in search of reason and logic to the behavior. You can’t BELEIVE that people can be like that. They look like people but they are mutations somehow.

And they want you to obsess, its their final “gift” to you. My salvation was, that after I had read and written what I needed to, I tried to find a mental disorder that was easier, to liken “Narcissism” to. I said to myself, if someone is mentally sick and beleive they are Napoleon (delusional), would you really delve that deeply into it? It’s the same with Narcissists, they are mentally retarded, cuckoo, the light is one but nobody’s home…

Crazy is the word and you can certainly explain it in so many different sychological terms. But the essence remains, they are LOONEYS.

It’s as simple as that, and after you have received the knowledge you need, it shall set you free!! You see, they want to be larger than life, complex, powerful beings and when you stop seeing them like that, and start viewing them as just simply…human cardboards, you have won the battle for good!

PS: And what you fell in love with was a reflection of yourself (whih flatters YOU after all ;)

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