Truth as a blunt object?

I’m not sure this topic has anything to do with Narcissism per se, but it has been on my mind for a few weeks. When something stays on my mind, I know it’s time to write about it. So, when is understanding and acceptance like being hit over the head with a blunt object? I [...]

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Traveling Through the Land of Entitlement

Narcissism is an epidemic in our culture today.  You witness it when you experience the driver who executes a lane change at high speed that is a near miss which leaves your heart racing.  There are less threatening examples that we witness everyday and, because we have become anesthetized to the unconsciousness behavior of people [...]

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Do Narcisssts Fake Love?

Ever curious about where my visitors come from, I review statistics that tell me what searches have helped people find The Legendary Narcissist website.  Today, I noticed that someone had searched for an answer to the question, “How can a narcissist fake love for so long?” As I pondered my own circumstances, I remembered wondering [...]

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Belief

We are all questing for answers to the questions that were raised about life, love, and ourselves. And discovering the answers is a process that is different for us all. But I feel that when you are clear about what these things mean to you, your heart will open again and your life will flourish again. And, while you are sifting through the sands of your darkest memories and deepest disappointments, always remember that there is light at the end of the tunnel, once you Believe in Yourself again.

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Reassembling Life After a Narcissistic Relationship

Change is inevitable ... Progress is optional. ~Jack Welch This is a statement not only about business, but also about life's ups and downs. Wholeheartedly, it is my belief that it isn't what happens to us that matters most, it is how we respond to things that have happened, especially if the circumstances are qualitatively [...]

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Living Through the Holidays

Although I take full responsibility for every choice and decision that has brought me to the life that I know today, I continue to stumble over the hurdle labeled acceptance. Accepting responsibility for one’s actions and choices is very different than accepting the disappointments that resulted from the actions and choices.

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Turning Points in Relationships

The warmth in the air mirrors the glow in you are feeling inside, until the NPD casually use a confidence you’ve shared with them in jest. It’s a turning point you will only recognize as a Narcissistic attack after the relationship has ended.

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What Attracts Narcissists?

As we learn more about Narcissists and NPD, we sometimes come to realize that the most recent experience we are reeling from is not the ONLY experience we’ve had in our lives.  While we can itemize the things to look out for and ways to extricate these emotional vampires from our sphere, it may be [...]

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Getting Your Narcisstic Ex Out of Your Mind

when you find yourself pining for your Narcissistic Ex, follow that feeling through. Examine all of the experiences, good or bad, and follow that train of thought right up to the point where the only choice was to leave the relationship. During that stroll down memory lane, you’ll be refreshing memories that both attract and repel you. If you are completely honest with yourself after replaying your mental tapes, you will once again conclude that you’ve made the right decision to leave.

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How to Expose a Narcissist

Reviewing some of the search terms that got people to this site, I found this topic.  I believe it to be of general interest but not for the most obvious reasons. I feel that it is necessary to re-cap a few facts that I’ve learned about Narcissists.  Narcissists are not easy to profile because they [...]

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