I heard a song by the Dixie Chicks which was written for a different purpose.  The refrain haunts me for their sentiments mirror my feelings.  

They sing:

"I'm not ready to make nice.  I'm not ready to back down 'cuz I'm mad as hell and I don't have time to go round and round and round.  It's too late to make it right, wouldn't do it if I could.  'Cuz I'm mad as hell and I don't have time to do what it is you think I should."

Conventional wisdom is to let it go and move on.  What is there to let go?  When the partner with whom you've been walking on the path changes course and doesn't provide information you need to have to make informed choices about your own well being, it casts doubt on your ability to make any choice and standing still seems best.

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